THIS coming Sunday is designated as Father’s Day, an opportunity (some might say a commercial opportunity) to celebrate the role of being a father.

Of course, these days there are many variations of what is regarded as family and who can be a father. 

The picture is becoming blurred and the true meaning of fatherhood is becoming less clear. 

Even the very concept of male and female is being challenged and with the development of genetic modification and human embryos being created outside of the womb some might say that there is now less of a need for “fathers”, which is possibly not a cause for celebration.

However, on a more positive note, every week the Christian church uses a written prayer known as the Lord’s Prayer which starts with the words “Our Father” showing that it was (and is) God’s intention that we should enjoy a special relationship with him in the same way that a child can relate to his or her father.

In fact, the original word “Abba” that is used to mean “Father” is an intimate and very personal word which would have been used by all the children within the family.

One of the three pillars of the traditional marriage ceremony (King James) is for the pro-creation of children, the others being as a remedy against sin and for the mutual support, help and comfort of those being married. 

There are over 1,000 references to “Father” in the Bible (New International Version) indicating a degree of importance attached to the role.

Great hymns include the words “Eternal Father, strong to save” and “For He is our childhood’s pattern”.

And surely this is the image that fathers would want to promote.

Namely, to be there for their children in times of need and to be a role model for them to follow.

After all, being a parent is for a lifetime. 

So to all fathers this weekend and in the time to come it is our prayer that you may find God’s grace and favour, wisdom and authority to fulfil your role and to bless your children.

PETER LANGMAN
Cirencester Community Church